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    6/15/2009

    一种打击,两种思考

           虽然这样说不好,但我真是想大声骂骂天杀的复旦网院,就在我看见论文初评成绩以为学位考的入场券基本稳握的时候,居然在答辩时给了我一个气的要当场喷血的成绩,什么世道都,谁都会做这道算术题,原来B+的成绩,不答还好答了变成C+了,原来B的那些或参加答辨或放弃答辨的同学最终都还得了个B-,老师这一笔下去我从无罪变成了无期徒刑,思前想后自己也没做错什么,一没抄,二到字数,怎么就比窦娥还冤呢,我?!刚看见这个结果,我突然决定要再申请重写论文,而且就拿这篇文章再去一次,就不信了,凭什么真材实料的东西被他们看成一文不值的废纸。哪怕再多出300元我也觉得值,我只是想讨个理。但是光有感性是不够的,在生了两天闷气后,我开始用理性的角度来分析这件事,这天下不公平的事多了去,在大是大非面前,我算只是个小挫折;再者,花了这个钱,能不能讨到这理且不论,即便讨了这个理,对拿学位也没什么好处,我又何苦,毕竟学位哪那么容易叫你拿了去,那些过五关斩六将好容易才挤进复旦的莘莘学子岂不冤枉?只怪自己在当初公平竞争的时候为何没能好好发挥,落得现在不得不来弥补那时的不足;况且我实在不想再跟他们这浪费半年的光阴,我耗的是自个的时间,反正外面考试有的是,还是去参加那些个到比较公平。
          这么一想,我还真是心平气和多了,前两天看了些前人总结的人生格言,分外有理,其中这句我印象最深:“有智慧的人就能够舍,能舍也就能得,能得无限的快乐;不能舍就会有失,失去了心境的安宁。”看似很无为,却实在是人生的真谛,走自己的路让他们闹去吧,虽然这次的事对我算是个莫大的打击,但是也反而促动我更想要前进的念头,世上不止这一条路,不通的话再转个身去找另一条便是。想着,我心中又充满了希望。

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